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The Gottman Method for Couples Therapy

With the right support, couples can learn how to navigate conflict and build a stronger, more harmonious relationship.

What Kind of Challenges Might you be Facing?

  • Arguing over the same issues again and again without resolution

  • Feeling more like roommates than romantic partners

  • Struggling with trust after a betrayal

  • Having difficulty communicating needs or emotions

  • Feeling criticized, shut down, or emotionally disconnected

  • Navigating parenting conflicts or in-law stress

  • Wanting to rekindle intimacy and closeness

  • Preparing for a long-term commitment and want a strong foundation

How the Gottman Method Can Help

The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. With over four decades of research behind it, this method helps couples:

  • Improve communication and reduce defensiveness

  • Manage conflict in a healthy, productive way

  • Increase affection, intimacy, and understanding

  • Heal from past hurts or betrayals

  • Build a stronger friendship and partnership

  • Create shared meaning and life goals

It’s not about deciding who’s right or wrong — it’s about helping both partners feel heard, valued, and supported.

Summary of Benefits Backed by Research

Outcome

Evidence


Improved relationship satisfaction

Better conflict resolution skills

Increased emotional intimacy

Reduced likelihood of divorce/separation

Gains sustained long-term

What the Process Looks Like

Gottman Method Couples Therapy follows a structured and supportive format.

    • Joint session to understand your relationship history and concerns

    • Individual interviews with each partner

    • Gottman Relationship Checkup: a comprehensive online assessment

    • Therapist reviews and shares feedback with you

    • Weekly or biweekly sessions focused on your goals

    • Learn and practice new skills for managing conflict, enhancing connection, and repairing past hurts

    • Use evidence-based tools and exercises tailored to your relationship

    • Focus on building trust, emotional safety, and shared meaning

    • As progress is made, sessions focus on reinforcing skills

    • You'll gain tools to use long after therapy ends

Couples who engage in couple’s therapy experience a 30% higher rate of relationship satisfaction compared to those who don't.

This statistic, supported by a study published in the Journal of Family Psychology, highlights how proactive relationship education can lay a strong foundation for a lasting partnership.

When Will You See Improvement?

Initial Gains Often Seen in 4–6 Sessions

Many couples report improved communication, reduced conflict intensity, and increased emotional connection within the first 4–6 sessions. Early sessions focus on assessment and personalized feedback, followed by targeted interventions.

Meaningful Improvement by 12 Sessions

According to clinical implementation reports, couples often experience marked improvement in satisfaction and functioning by 8–12 sessions, especially if they actively engage in homework and practice skills outside of sessions.

Intensive Format Option

In Gottman Marathon Therapy (a 2-3 day intensive), 70–90% of couples report rapid improvement in conflict resolution and emotional closeness.

Meet the Team

  • Janine Cheng, LCSW

    FOUNDER + CLINICAL DIRECTOR

  • Natalie Dupre, LMSW

    ASSOCIATE PSYCHOTHERAPIST

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